If you like to chat, just click on the Xat Chat tab above. Its a great way to get to know other members, exchange stories, ask questions quickly and sometimes just blow off some steam. The chat is a bit tricky for first time users as it will assign a random name. Simply click on the name in the box to the right to change it. Hope to see some new members in there! If you need any assistance just click on the members tab and then one of the featured members to email them.